Stop Lying To Yourself

We have to make difficult choices at difficult and different stages of our life. For example, I, a few days before, had to make the big choice to choose the subject for my O’levels. My decision depended on what I wanted to become in the future.  A lot of people encouraged me to take pre-medical and I know they thought it was the best for me but, it is my choice and, if in that very moment I had taken the field I KNEW I wouldn’t enjoy being in, I wouldn’t be happy  as I am right now. I enjoy pre-engineering. The fact that I am happy right now is because I didn’t lie to myself. I know I cannot become a doctor. I know bio is not my strength. I know one wrong decision can change the course of my life. To be honest, I am not nervous to make a decision that can change the course of my life. I have been taught that I have to deal with every obstacle I face and that, I have to adjust my self-according to the situation I am in but, sometimes being truly honest to yourself is really the key to become happy and successful.Tell someone that you have been lying to yourself and to them for some time now. Doing something dramatic, in a good way. Take a risk. Not doing something simply because you are told to do it or because everyone else is doing it.

People lie to themselves. They know that they couldn’t do certain things. They know that if they do something they shouldn’t, It will affect them and others around them as well but let’s not ignore the fact that human nature is daring. Daring is good but only sometimes being daring can really help you or change your life.  Before doing something we have to be sure if we can do that. For instance, I am accustomed of making to-do lists for my everyday tasks. Today, I had 5 tasks to do but guess what? I didn’t do either of them and, ended up writing this blog and I literally know that tonight, I am going to sleep with deep guilt of not doing those tasks.  Can you see where this lack of honestly taking me? To be honest, If one is truthful to themselves, life can be a lot more easier.

Sometimes, when I really don’t know what I should do, I talk to no one but to myself . I know it sound crazy but it helps. It helps me to get my thoughts in order and decide either I should do one thing or not.

I guess that was all I had for you guys today. Thank you so much for 850+ views on my blog. It really means a lot and, more blogs will be coming very soon.

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